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Therapy for when insight alone hasn’t healed the parts that hurt

Compassionate, experiential therapy specializing in trauma, PTSD, anxiety and attachment. Serving individuals and couples in-person in the Silverlake neighborhood of Los Angeles and online across California.

Online therapy office in Silverlake, Los Angeles, California
Therapist Michele Carroll, AMFT, in online therapy room in Silverlake, Los Angeles, California

You keep finding yourself in the same patterns and you don’t know why.

Does this sound like you?

✓ You know what to do, but you can’t seem to change.

✓ You don’t identify as having trauma, but you can’t seem to show up fully yourself with others.

✓ You simultaneously feel like too much and never enough.

✓ You’ve done the work on yourself and you know what’s wrong, but you still don’t feel better.

✓ You’re ready to stop coping and start healing.

WE MIGHT WORK WELL TOGETHER IF YOU IDENTIFY WITH ANY OF THESE…

You’re tired of your trauma running your life.

Your trauma is part of you, but it doesn’t have to rule you. You may not be able to change your past, but you can change how you feel about it and how it shows up in your life today. One of the hardest things about trauma is that so often you’ve had to endure its impacts alone. Frequently, the people we needed to show up for us then either couldn’t or didn’t — and that has left wounds too. I offer a place where you can safely explore your trauma and how it shows up in your life today together, undoing the aloneness you may have felt for years. You and your feelings won’t be too much for me and you won’t have to make yourself small.

Everyone thinks you’re fine, but inside you’re struggling.

On the outside you look good, but inside you are feeling disconnected and alone. Maybe you’re a people-pleaser, the adult child of immature parents, or someone who masks even with those closest to you. Often this is due to attachment injuries, which are less about what happened to you and more about what you didn’t get when you needed it and the protective strategies you developed as a result. Together, we’ll process those old ideas and make room for a more authentic you in your life today.You don't have to keep carrying this hidden loneliness by yourself, and I won't be intimidated by what emerges when we start looking underneath.

You’re looking for therapy that’s friendly to men.

Being a man shouldn’t disqualify you from therapy, but sometimes it feels like it does. I don’t treat being a man as a problem to be solved. In our work together, we’ll focus on what’s important to you and you won’t be asked to choose between feeling better and feeling like you. Some men find that they feel more comfortable talking with a female therapist and it can be particularly helpful if the women in your life are telling you that you’re “emotionally unavailable.”

You’re a couple who want to reconnect with your “we.”

In our work together, we reconnect with why you first came together and what you appreciate about one another, not just the problems you’re having today. To rekindle the feeling of “that’s my person.” We’ll identify the parts of each of you that are adding to the relationship and the parts that may be unconsciously holding you back from what you want, as well as how to navigate conflict without burning down the house.

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Curious what it would be like to work together?

I offer a free 15-minute Zoom or phone call, so that you can have an experience of what it’s like to work with me. If we don’t have that click, I am also happy to offer referrals to colleagues that may be a better fit.